change

I think that people are so overly concerned with changing who they are that they forget that job belongs to time. So ready to grow up, so ready to be different, all just to prove a point that wont matter to anyone. Changing things doesnt make you a better person. It makes you lost and makes you unhappy for being something your not. Grown. In time there are seasons, and in seasons things change. Just because your in the middle of winter and you are tired of bundling up, doesnt mean that you need to go and put on shorts just to make a statement. In time spring will come, and then summer, then when summer comes youll be ready to go back to spring all because you try to be in a season that you are not in. I have a friend, that is so concerned with what people thionk about him, he changes his identity every few months. He goes through a series of arguments with people and the conclucion of each argument is that im not the same. It defeats the purpose jof saying that becasue he has never been the same person for too long. Status changes on facebook and myspace, and twitter stating how hes lettign alot of his friends go and that he will never be the same. Yet he always seems to go back to the same group of friends. Hes definatly lost and doesnt know who he is. Which is fine because everyone goes through things, but if i may be some type of assistance to anyone who is going through the samething, and say sit down.